This is one of the hardest things for me to deal with as a parent. Dyson is 3 years old and spends almost all of his time with Tracy. And they just got back from a 2 week trip to visit her parents. So naturally, he’s much more attached to her than he is to me. It also doesn’t help that things at work have been pretty rough lately and I’ve been spending some late nights there.
It’s natural and I completely understand, but it hurts. He’s just a kid, he doesn’t mean anything by it. And maybe at some point, it’ll switch. But for now, he pushes me away when I try to comfort him if he’s upset or just asks for Mama if I try to help.
Still, I know that I should keep trying and keep on being there for him even if he doesn’t want me to be. I take him on trips out of the house on the weekends even though it’d be easier to disengage and just let him stay home with his mom. Because it’s the right thing to do. But sometimes it’s hard.
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8 responses to ““I don’t want to hug Papa.””
hey mach, someday your son read this post, smile and think …. what a great dad i have. in july i’ll be a father too and man let me tell you, you are a great dad. i enjoy your youtube vids all the time. so keep on and be brave!
christian from germany! ๐
sorry mach! ^^ can you change it?!
Heh, thanks Christian. And edited for you. =)
ๅคงใกใใใฏใใใใๆฎ้ใงใใใจใใซไฝ่ชฟใๆชใๆใฏใใใใใซใใใซใชใใงใใใใ
ๅคงใกใใใใใฃใจๆ้ทใใใฐใใใใฎๅบ็ชใงใใ
ๅฝผใใใใๅฟ ่ฆใจใใๆใๆฅใพใใใใฎๆใใใฃใใใจๅใๆญขใใฆใใใฆใญใ
ใใชใใฏใๆฌๅฝใซ่ฏใใใฃใฆใใพใใๆๅฟใใฆใใพใใ
May God bless you !
Love,
Tami
Thanks, Mom. I wonder if we were like that as kids, too.
Bill hardly did anything like you do to Daichan now.
ใใชใใ้ฃใใฆใใฐใใกใใใฎใ่ฆ่ใใซไธใถๆใปใฉใๆฅๆฌใซ่กใฃใฆๅธฐใฃใฆๆฅใใจใใ็ฉบๆธฏใซๅใใใซๆฅใฆใใใใ็ถใใใ่ฆใฆใใใชใใฏใๆณฃใใพใใใใใฐใใ่ฆใชใใฃใใฎใงใใใใใฎใงใใใใBillใฏใใชใใจๅใๆใใใใใงใใใใญใใ
ใใชใ้ใใใฃใจๅคงใใๆใฃใฆใใใฏใไธ็ทใซ้ใใงใใใใใใซใชใใพใใใใงใใใผใซใงใฏใใใชใใ๏ผใถๆใใใใใ๏ผ่ชๅใงๅใไบใๅบๆฅใ้ ใใ๏ผใไธ็ทใซๆณณใใงใใใพใใใใใฎ้ ใฏใๅฒใใฎใใใ็กใใใผใซใซ่ฝใกใใๅฑ้บใชใฎใงใๆณณใใใใใซใจๆใฃใใฎใงใใใใ
ๅคงใกใใใฏใ็ทใฎๅญใงใใใ็ถใใใๅฟ ่ฆใชๆใ็ตถๅฏพใซๆฅใพใใใใคใๆใใๅฟใง่ฆๅฎใฃใฆใใใฆใใ ใใใใใฃใจ้ใใฆใใพใใใใจใใใใชใใฎๆนใซๅใใฆใใใชใใฆใใ
็ฅๆงใใ็ง้ใใฉใใชใซๅๆใใฆใ็งใใกใๆใใไบใๆญขใใใใพใใใๆฌๅฝใซๆ่ฌใงใใญใใใฎๆใซใใใใพใใใใ
You and I went to Japan June20-August12,1973.
June 9,73 your picture in swimming pool with Bill.
It might be your first day of swimming.
My memory was not clear now sorry.
Thanks. I forgot about that story. And your memory is clearer than mine. =)